Monthly Archive: July 2010


I recently discovered FetLife, the ‘Facebook of kink’. I’ve always been one to make friends online, but I was a bit unsure about the idea of sharing my kink with so many identifiable people at once. At least here, at my blog, I can imagine that you’re all just shadows dancing in the distance. Still, …

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The Sexually Submissive Feminist (via Feminism. Art. Porn. Sex.)

I really enjoyed this article; it’s a must read for anyone who is curious, doesn’t understand, or wants to know more about how feminist women like me can enjoy the submissive side of BDSM. Yep, I’m a feminist. Yep, I’m sexually submissive. Yep, I’m a masochist. Yep, I fantasise about boys and girls tying me …

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Beginner’s Dungeon

Last night I hopped over to the Citadel with my partner and a friend to attend EduKink’s Beginner’s Dungeon class. Great class. In a lot of ways I wish it had been one of the first classes I attended, simply because the overview was really well done and it was a great introduction into everything …

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