This week’s TMI Tuesday theme is Regret. I have a bit of an interesting stance on regret, illustrated by the image above and explained a bit more in the last question for this week. Enjoy!
1. What was the last thing you regret buying?
Hmm. Nothing comes to mind recently because I’ve been trying really hard to only buy things that I need (or really want and have nothing similar to). My biggest shopping regret though is my N64. It was the first thing I bought with all my own money and I never really used it. Those were the days when I was too jumpy/frightened to play Zelda and I hated the blocky graphics anyway.
2. What was the last sex toy you regret buying?
I really wish I hadn’t bought the Lelo Gigi. It was my first EF order and the most I’d ever spent on a sex toy, but the reviews said it was outstanding other than the issue with the handle being too short. Unfortunately Gigi is most comfortable as a clitoral vibe and I really wish I had bought the Ella first since I actually get proper G-spot stimulation out of it.
3. Briefly describe a time that you had sex, and you should not have. Why did you do it?
About a month before school ended, we had a day where M was really horny and I wasn’t really feeling like having sex. He was pushing me more than usual and I didn’t feel like fighting about it, so I rolled over as it were and just let things happen. I ended up crying almost the whole time and trying to make sure he didn’t notice, and when it was all over and I told him how horrible things were….he said he didn’t enjoy it anyway because I wasn’t having a good time. x_x;;
4. If you could choose to stay a certain age forever, what age would it be?
Hard to say. I expect that being 25-30 will be a good age and that I might choose that, but I don’t exactly know yet. Either that or being like, 7, when life is full of naivety. Though, being 7, the smallest things make your life feel like it isn’t worth living and not having grown up to know any better, that could be pretty shit.
5. A good friend’s significant other flirts with you; would you tell your good friend?
If they asked, I would tell them the truth. Otherwise I’d tell their SO to get out of my face and be faithful and then threaten to tell my friend if they pulled that stunt ever again.
6. What is your greatest professional regret? For example: Promotions you did not accept; Internship opportunities you did not pursue; Inventions/ideas you did not share.
A colleague a few years ago suggested that I should apply for a training intern position at my school, especially if I wanted to continue in the field. I was far too nervous and under confident and so I decided not to apply. Looking back, it would have been a great experience especially since I ended up choosing this field as a career.
Bonus: What is your biggest regret?
Talking about regrets is always hard for me, especially when it comes to this question. There are a lot of things in life I regret but without them, I wouldn’t be who I am today. I often think my biggest regret was my entire relationship with my ex. I spent a year being head-over-heels for him, another two years dating him, and another year trying to pick up the pieces when my entire life was shattered. However, I learned a lot of important lessons along the way and I grew to know myself and my needs in a way I never did before that. I also have a great story to tell about how I found love, got engaged, and got screwed over by the biggest asshole of all time.
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